Blake Cody

Lead with Love, Live with Intention

Essays on discipline, love and living with intention — for anyone rebuilding after a hard season. Written from inside the work, not after it.

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I'm Blake Cody — 22, from Michigan, and writing my way through the work of becoming someone I'm proud of. Most of what I write is about discipline and self-discipline, mindset, relationships, and intentional living: the daily habits and honest decisions that slowly turn a life around.

I started because I looked at myself one day and knew there was more — so I began rebuilding my routines, my confidence and my direction from scratch. I write about it in real time — what's working, what isn't, and what I'd tell a friend going through the same thing. That writing became my book, Aligned: Lead with Love, Live with Intention, and a daily journaling habit that eventually became an app, My JRNL.

If you're rebuilding after a hard season, trying to become more disciplined, or just want to live with more intention, you're in the right place. Start with the latest essays below.

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Blake Cody

Written by Blake Cody

I'm an aspiring author and life & relationship coach from Michigan, writing about discipline, love and intentional living while I live it. Everything on this site is my own experience, written down as honestly as I can.